28 April, 2011

Fruitful Thursday: Self Control

Fruitful Thursdays
Now that we're somewhat settled in our new house I'm ready to take on the final month of the Fruitful Thursday series. I will be addressing the final fruit of the spirit, self control. Isn't it ironic that I am typing this post about self control while eating Oreos? There are so many areas where I fall short on self control it's hard to know where to start.

Food

Exercise

Thoughts

Words

Chores

and more.

I guess the best thing to do is start with the source....my heart.
"But the things that come out of a person's mouth come from the heart, and these defile them. For out of the heart come evil thoughts - murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. These are what defile a person; but eating with unwashed hands does not defile them." Matthew 15:18-20

26 April, 2011

Easter Reflections



This post is linked to Titus 2sdays at Time Warp Wife

I hope you had a wonderful Easter, I did! This was our first holiday in our new home - and in my new kitchen, which I love!!

But this post is not about my kitchen, it's about the meaning of Easter. The true meaning of Easter is something I appreciate more and more as I get older, wiser and as I learn the true meaning of being a parent.

Easter is all about salvation. Christ died for YOU. A most solemn sacrifice so that each and every one of us may have the opportunity to choose an eternity of peace. God gave his son willingly, WILLINGLY. One for the masses.

But I warn those of you who think this sacrifice, this gift, is cruel or barbaric - do not confuse willingly with easily.

It must have been an agonizing sacrifice, one I cannot and hope to never be able to fathom. I imagine it may feel similar to the hell parents of a terminally ill child feel when they must choose to forgo treatment in order to make the most of the time they have left with their precious child.

And yet He did it willingly for us all - because He wanted to bless us and He knew He would be with His son again.

This point was driven home when I read this poignant post from Dana of Roscommon Acres. She witnessed her little son, crushed by the weight of a dresser, bloody and soon to be lifeless. And yet she still praises the name of God in His sovereignty because she understands that

"His character is not dependent on my circumstances....not revealed through my wealth nor through my safety nor through my comfort. His character is revealed through the cross."

Thank you Dana for your insight, it has changed my outlook. Completely. I have to wonder, when did sacrifice become a bad thing? When it happened to us? When we became the one who had to do the sacrificing? I guess so. I know I don't want to be a called upon for such sacrifice. But what happened to honor, courage and unselfishness? Have I lost these virtues? Have we as a people? Did we ever have them?

Then today my brother who made it safely through two tours of duty-praise God-, one in Iraq and one in Afghanistan, learned he lost a friend serving in Afghanistan to a grenade attack. He was 22. Only 22.

Another worthy sacrifice.

I remind myself not to take such sacrifices lightly. Because of people like my brother and his friend I have a freedom people in many other countries cannot fathom. Because of people like Dana and her son Tiggy I am a better mother. Because of God and His son I have eternal life and so much more.

On Easter morning I had the song How Great Thou Art stuck in my head. I couldn't understand why because I couldn't remember the lyrics. I just sang the chorus and a few random verses over and overwhile preparing our Easter meal. But when my friend posted it on Facebook this morning I suddenly understood why God put it in my heart. It's an Easter song that tells the story of salvation. His is risen and He is great indeed.




How Great Thou Art Hymn

Lord my God! When I in awesome wonder
Consider all the works thy hand hath made,
I see the stars, I hear the mighty thunder,
Thy power throughout the universe displayed;

Refrain:
Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art, how great Thou art!
Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art, how great Thou art!

When through the woods and forest glades I wander
and hear the birds sing sweetly in the trees;
when I look down from lofty mountain grandeur,
and hear the brook, and feel he gentle breeze;

Refrain

And when I think that God his son not sparing,
Sent him to die - I scarce can take it in,
That on the cross my burden gladly bearing,
He bled and died to take away my sin:

Refrain

When Christ shall come with shout of acclamation
And take me home- what joy shall fill my heart!
Then I shall bow in humble adoration
And there proclaim, my God, how great thou art!

Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art, how great Thou art!
Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art, how great Thou art!

21 April, 2011

Kids 4 Orphans -How Will Your Kids Help?

I was considering an extended bloggy hiatus, but I was so excited about a certain project I just HAD to come back today and share. If you don't know Angela from Homegrown Mom, you should. She's a great blogger with a heart for Jesus and is hosting an amazing opportunity to get your children in involved in giving and, at the same time, bless orphans! Here's what Angela has to say:





In a recent guest post, Ann Dunagan of Harvest Ministry, shared a need for beds for orphans in Africa. Since then, Ann has shared other needs with me, including mattresses, blankets, and food.

I think I am more excited about what I am about to tell you than any other thing I've ever done on my blog. I have an assignment for you!

Next week, between April 26 and April 29, some other bloggers and I will be hosting a Kids 4 Orphans Link up!


Your Assignment:

1. Share the need with your kids and pray for the children of GUMA NA YESU. You can read more about this ministry here. Here's a video to share with your kiddos, on your blog, with your church, your neighbors, etc:




2. Get your kids to come up with a project to raise money for blankets, mattresses, and food for the Orphans at GUMA NA YESU orphanage in Africa. Tomorrow, I will be sharing project ideas for you. Ann has a brochure with the need and lots of ideas for you here.


3. Set a goal. Blankets are $5 each and Mattresses are $10. Beds are $20. The greater need right now is blankets and mattresses, and food. Here is what Ann has to say about food needs:



There is also a big need for food. Right now the kids are mostly getting is pinto beans, rice, and cassava flour "posho" (which is very bland, and tastes kinda like gritty non/salty play-dough. I have a hard time eating it. It's typical boarding school food in Uganda, but I really would like for them to get more healthy food, like fruit or peanuts or pineapple or avocado or bananas or matoke (which is a Ugandan cooked banana that tastes like squash, it's yummy and healthy), or cabbage. When multiplying by 700 it just costs so much to add variety.

What moves your kids' hearts? Find out and set a goal with them, working towards a specific need. I wholeheartedly believe that each of us can raise at least $100, but I won't put a limit on what God can do! Even if you raise $20, that will buy 4 blankets! I think it will help to set a specific goal such as, "We want to raise enough funds to get mattresses and blankets for 10 children!" Then see what God does with our little plans :)


4. Do the project with your kids. It can be as simple or as complex as you like!


5. Donate all funds raised to The Cause 4 Orphans. Directions and a button to donate can be found here. Click on the Piggy Bank and follow the directions :)


6. Share a photo or a blog post showing what you and your kids did. If you don't have a blog, you can post a photo on my Facebook Page. If you don't want to share a photo, you can simply post a summary of what you did. If you don't blog or Facebook, email the photo or summary to me and I will post it for you, anonymously if you like. I want everyone to be able to participate so if in doubt of how to share, just contact me!


7. Link up your blog post next week! Other blogs are hosting the link-up, and when you link up on any blog, it will show on all hosts at once.

8. *Bonus! Everyone who enters a photo or post will be entered to win a copy of Ann's books: The Mission Minded Family and The Mission-Minded Child!



Will you participate?


I hope you will consider participating. Even if you are unable to do a project and donate, you can easily participate by spreading the word via Facebook, Twitter, your blog or face to face with friends!

04 April, 2011

Moving!

Hey everybody. We're knee deep in moving to our new house and I won't have internet for a few days. *Gasp! I know! Not sure how I'm going to make it either. So you won't miss me too much while I'm gone I figured I share two quick links to some of my other writing. Choosing Friends Wisely - At The Homeschool Village I share about the example my mother set for me in having strong Christian friendships - and why we as parents should model that for our children. Great Homeschooling Links - A great link list I compiled for The Homeschool Classroom with posts on adoption, cooking with preschoolers, field trips and encouragement.

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