This confession is for the public-at-large, family and friends...anyone who has not experienced or does not understand homeschooling. Hopefully this will give you some insight. I want you to know what I'm all about. Taking on homeschooling is by and large on of the best decisions I've ever made. But it isn't always easy.
I feel judged...that I cannot make a mistake because all eyes are upon me.
I do have bad days.
I'm afraid to ask for help or share my troubles for fear that any shortcoming will be attributed to homeschooling, even though many public schoolers may share similar issues.
I don't always know what I'm doing.
If you're so worried about the socialization of my child(ren), offer to take us on a field trip. You just may find we're already well socialized.
I do this because it's what I feel is best for my child(ren).
I don't think homeschooling is the answer for everyone.
I don't think public school is evil, I realize it's a good fit for some children.
Quizzing my children whenever you see them is NOT helping.
The best way you can help is to show us your support, even if you're unsure of homeschooling. Give it a chance.
We live in our home, school in our home, it's bound to be messy sometimes. Mess does not always mean lazy, it can mean busy.
I am not a stereotype.
Telling me over and over "I don't know how you do it!" "I could never homeschool." or " I can't imagine your days!" is not a compliment.
*Disclaimer-Lest I give everyone the impression that homeschooling is the hardest thing ever, or that homeschoolers always feel like victims; let me say that 90% of our days are positive and productive. But, like everyone else, we have challenges to overcome. This post was inspired by the frustration I feel when someone gives me the "she's crazy" look when they find out we're a homeschooling family. Thankfully, that doesn't happen too often.